Downgrading and Upgrading Speech

I think more and more if you call someone by the most respectable title you can think of for them it will be easier to serve them. listen<<This came out of a conversation I had where at the beginning of the conversation I referred to someone as “A big black guy” and by the end of the conversation I referred to him as “The nice African-American man”He deserved to be treated with respect from the beginning, and I’m not sure why I downgraded him as I spoke of him, but I was glad that I saw what I was saying and upgraded him as I continued to speak.>>¬†

3 Responses to “Downgrading and Upgrading Speech”


  • You have me contemplating what those titles would be — since I often do not respect the titles of this age. For tonight, I settle on “Beloved.” I am going to meditate on that. peace

  • the jott sounds like you’re teaching english again…to the computer

  • This makes an interesting commentary on the way we interpret language as well! There is nothing inherently negative about the words “big,” “black,” or “man.” And yet the mind assigns a negative connotation to the first set of simple words. I wonder if “African American” is any more positive or just more formal and less given to common meanings and unspoken baggage? I look forward to the day when it is just, “my friend Bob” or “my colleague Debbie.” peace

Comments are currently closed.